What if the heaviness you carry is older than your story?
Something keeps returning. A heaviness with no clear origin. A grief that does not feel entirely yours. A pattern in love, in family, in work, that you can see clearly and somehow cannot stop repeating, no matter how much work you have done.
In family systems, what is not fully lived in one generation often passes to the next. Unprocessed grief. Unspoken loss. A secret no one in the family was allowed to name. A loyalty to someone who came before us, carried silently without our knowing. A previous love that still lives in us, shaping the relationships we have today.
We may feel responsible for emotions that are not entirely ours. We may feel blocked in love, in our work, in our voice, despite many efforts to bring change.
This is the territory of ancestral and systemic work. When entanglements are brought into awareness and met with grounded presence, something can begin to move. What belongs can return to those it belongs to. And we become more available to live our own life.
Online session, held on Zoom platform
The First Thread — a 75-minute one-to-one session online
I offer one-to-one sessions online, in the tradition of Family Constellations. Together we explore what is moving in your family system — sometimes a relationship, sometimes a pattern, sometimes a heaviness you have carried without knowing where it began.
I offer one-to-one sessions online, in the tradition of Family Constellations. Together we explore what is moving in your family system — sometimes a relationship, sometimes a pattern, sometimes a heaviness you have carried without knowing where it began.
Often we place clay figurines to represent meaningful relations in life, family members to see where energy is not moving. I use second camera to show you the table with figurines and the movements.
We work with small clay figures, placing them to represent the people and forces in your story. As we move and observe them, we start seeing the dynamics and the process begins to reveal what has been hidden — old loyalties, unspoken grief, the weight of what came before. Sessions unfold slowly, with space for the body, for emotion, and for what does not always reach words.
Hi, I'm Aiste
My path into this work began with my own experience of sensing unspoken grief and silence within my family. That search for understanding led me first to psychology and later to Family Constellations.
I offer a grounded and compassionate space where what has been carried for a long time can be seen, honoured, and gently brought into movement. Sessions unfold slowly, with care and respect for both your personal story and the wider family system that shapes it.
My path into this work began with my own experience of sensing unspoken grief and silence within my family. That search for understanding led me first to psychology and later to Family Constellations.
I offer a grounded and compassionate space where what has been carried for a long time can be seen, honoured, and gently brought into movement. Sessions unfold slowly, with care and respect for both your personal story and the wider family system that shapes it.
Aiste Samsonovaite
Video Testimonials
Voices from past sessions
Clotilde
Educator and Singer, France
Educator and Singer, France
Zahi Lotem, MD - Pediatrician, Pulmonologist
Michal Hemmo Lotem, MD - Pediatrician, Entrepreneur
Michal Hemmo Lotem, MD - Pediatrician, Entrepreneur
Aleida Rodriguez
Psychologist, Canada
Psychologist, Canada
Elizabeth
Writer, UK
Writer, UK
Testimonials
What participants have shared about their experience.
- BeatrizAccupunturist, MexicoI did my Family Constellations therapy with Aiste, and it was a sweet and loving reunion.
She offered a supportive presence, guided with knowledge and empathy.
This work is truly helpful, and even more so when done in community. Thank you. - RupertArtisan Baker, WalesAiste holds space with such grace and skill. With gentleness, she helped me befriend aspects of myself and my experiences which I so often look away from.
Through family constellations, I have begun the precious work of understanding and healing in my ancestral line.
The result is more space & compassion for myself and others. I am very grateful for the work that Aiste carries. - RūtaTherapist, LithuaniaAfter the Family Constellations workshop, I felt as if I had just come out of a deep rest.
Aistė gently led the group into some other space — where all the noise fades away,
and you’re left with the bare truth: both your own and the collective.
You no longer want to negotiate with anything or analyze anything.
Something deep has been stirred.
Thank you!
- SteveUKAn almost mystical experience where you can resolve relational difficulties that may be trapped within the unconscious — something going on for you now, or coming from an ancestral origin. A hugely powerful emotional experience, held in a safe, contained environment.
- StijnBelgiumThe Family constellation changed my life. I saw the pain of my forefathers and mothers. Now I understand better the patterns of my family. I felt very safe.
It was an emotional, powerful and beautiful experience.
Thank you. - ShelleyZimbabweFor the first time ever, going into a Family constellation Aiste made me feel grounded, safe and fully supported in every possible outcome imaginable.
The profound experience radically changed my perspective of how I view existence itself.
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